Kevin had his latest mappings yesterday and today. We still split the mappings in 2 day, one for each ear. It is so much less stressful on everyone and we seem to get better sound booth results when Kevin isn't at his wits end from sitting and testing for 3+ hours. This was his first mapping in which was 6 months from his last one. Before that, they were every 3 months. I'm very excited that neither of his maps changed very much. That means that his hearing is stabilizing and he shouldn't have very many fluctuations in the future. His audiogram was fantastic! He is hearing bascially 10-20db across the board with one frequency at 25db. Our audi warned us that they usually don't like CI kids to hear at 10db with his low frequency because it means that all sounds might be too loud for him. For instance, the hum of a computer might sound the same as someone talking. Kevin has never seemed to have a problem with this, but she turned his map 'down' to account for this. After changing his map, he still tested at 10db. I guess he just is really in tune with these sounds! The funny thing is that he tested to 10db on both sides!
Now for the really exciting news! Because Kevin is a pretty mature child and has great language skills, she decided to test his listening skills in the booth where she gives him random sentences and he needs to repeat them. She said that they usually don't think about giving this test until a child is at least 4. Kevin isn't even 3 yet. Kevin is very helpful with all testing, so she thought she would give it a try. I forget the name of this test, but the audi reads a random sentence while covering her mouth so Kevin can't lip read and Kevin needs to repeat the sentence back. With his right ear, he did this with 92% accuracy and his left ear had 98% accuracy!!! Wow!!!! What this signifies is that Kevin's auditory memory skills are incredible and that he is really listening, hearing, and confidently accepting what he thinks he hears. These sentences were completely out of context and used a pretty high vocabulary. The test used words that we don't use everyday like 'dishcloth', 'soaking', etc. Needless to say, I am pretty ecstatic right now at how well Kevin is doing. How can 2 years make such a difference in our lives? If anyone is reading this that is just starting their CI journey, please keep your faith. Your child will be fine and in a few years, I bet you won't be able to keep your kid quiet either!!!
Wednesday, March 4, 2009
Sunday, March 1, 2009
Changing the rules?
I think we are doomed... Kevin is already starting to manipulate things to go his way through conversation at the tender age of 2 years and 10 months. This is how our conversation at dinner went tonight...
Kevin: Trying to get down from the chair without eating anything... after about 40 minutes at the table. A normal night for us.
Mom: 'Kevin, you know how it goes. You can't get down until you eat a bite of chicken. That's the rule.
Kevin: 'No, I get down now. That's my rule.
Mom and Dad: trying hard not to laugh and admiring that our deaf son is telling us his own rules.
He continued to banter back and forth with Dad... ultimately we won. It was really a funny conversation, though! Maybe he'll be a lawyer...
Kevin: Trying to get down from the chair without eating anything... after about 40 minutes at the table. A normal night for us.
Mom: 'Kevin, you know how it goes. You can't get down until you eat a bite of chicken. That's the rule.
Kevin: 'No, I get down now. That's my rule.
Mom and Dad: trying hard not to laugh and admiring that our deaf son is telling us his own rules.
He continued to banter back and forth with Dad... ultimately we won. It was really a funny conversation, though! Maybe he'll be a lawyer...
Wednesday, February 25, 2009
Long update
I am finding that I am taking longer to write between blogs because life is so normal these days. Yes, Kevin has a cochlear implant, but that doesn't seem first and foremost in our minds these days. Life with him is just normal. I never thought I would get to this point, but we are really enjoying it!
I do, however, have some fun updates on Kevin. Last Saturday, Feb. 21, was Kevin's 2 year hearing birthday. We marked this milestone with taking cupcakes to his oral-deaf school and having a family party on Saturday. This was such a significant day in our lives that I always want to remember it and celebrate it somehow. Where did the last 2 years go? I seems like yesterday that we were sitting in the audi's office and listening to the beeps hoping that Kevin would turn his head... and he did... and he smiled. He hasn't looked back since! Kevin is a completely auditory child!!! Happy 2nd Birthday, Kevin! I really need to upload some audio samples of him. The problem is that he gets goofy when the camera is on him and doesn't talk the way he normally does. Hopefully I will get some good footage of him soon and let you all see for yourself how great of a talker he is! :)
The one area of focus we have had is articulation. His artic is getting much better and I think that is due to 2 reasons. One, he is almost 3 and so his age and development is helping with that. The other is that his tongue strength and movement is soooooooo much better. I can't even begin to tell you how much better it is! We have been working a ton on this is therapy and I also have let him chew gum. Between those 2 thing, his movement has really increased. This seems to be helping how he is articulating.
We are also working on his IEP. That is coming up in less than a month, so we are getting all of our ducks in a row for that. I'm not anticipating many challenges with this, but you never know. All districts are cash strapped now and Kevin is the first deaf child in his district. So, he is paving the way for others... assuming there will be others. We are hoping for a 2 day a week in his oral-deaf school and 2 days in mainstream. I also would like to have him start using an FM system when he turns 3. I'll keep you updated on how this process goes. So far, it has just been a lot of paperwork and testing/observation. I'm not one to enjoy having to 'go through the process'.
2 cute stories that happened tonight that I have to share are this:
1. I was in the kitchen cooking with the fan on the stove and Kevin and his brother were in the family room about 20 ft away. My cell phone was about 10 ft. from me, so 30 ft. from Kevin. They were playing trains and making moving sounds and the fan was loud and my phone isn't that loud, but it started ringing. I didn't hear it that well. Kevin says, 'Mommy, your phone is ringing'. Why thanks, Kevin... my deaf child alerted me to my ringing phone! How cool is that!!!
2. Before we put the kids to bed, I made a fort with the couch cushions and we got underneath and turned on flashlights to tell 'spooky' stories. I went first and then my other son told a long and detailed story. I assumed that was it, but Kevin wanted to tell and story and I swear he talked for about 4-5 minutes non-stop with this detailed story. He was making up names for characters (monsters) like 'bullet-train' and 'curious george'. He told what they did and where they were going. I was so impressed that he could tell a made-up story all on his own! He never ceases to amaze me!
On another note, something did come up today. I have started taking them to the childcare at the gym. For the 2nd week in a row, Kevin has been bonked in the head by a 'friend' with a toy. Now, the child today was 2.5, so I am sure it was just a 2.5 year old thing, but on the way home I posed the question, 'Kevin, why are you getting hit in the head?' My other son said, 'maybe they are making fun of his implants'. Gulp... what did you say???? He told me that he doesn't think they are funny and no one has said anything to him, but maybe that is why they are doing that. My other son is almost 5. We have never had the conversation about Kevin's implants being 'different' or 'weird' or 'funny'. Just how great they are. Somehow, he has learned that people might poke fun at him for it. We talked about how he needed to be there for Kevin is someone did poke fun at him for them. While I am sure today's incident was simply a 2 year old asserting his power, it did make me aware that the time will come when some uneducated child will say something or do something to hurt Kevin's feelings about his implants. Hopefully Kevin will be at an age to have the confidence to soar through this, but I am dreading that day. I also never realized it might come at such a young age...
All in all, we couldn't be happier with Kevin's progress. He gets mapped next week! It will be interesting to see how much his map has changed in the past 6 months... this is the longest we have had between mappings!
I do, however, have some fun updates on Kevin. Last Saturday, Feb. 21, was Kevin's 2 year hearing birthday. We marked this milestone with taking cupcakes to his oral-deaf school and having a family party on Saturday. This was such a significant day in our lives that I always want to remember it and celebrate it somehow. Where did the last 2 years go? I seems like yesterday that we were sitting in the audi's office and listening to the beeps hoping that Kevin would turn his head... and he did... and he smiled. He hasn't looked back since! Kevin is a completely auditory child!!! Happy 2nd Birthday, Kevin! I really need to upload some audio samples of him. The problem is that he gets goofy when the camera is on him and doesn't talk the way he normally does. Hopefully I will get some good footage of him soon and let you all see for yourself how great of a talker he is! :)
The one area of focus we have had is articulation. His artic is getting much better and I think that is due to 2 reasons. One, he is almost 3 and so his age and development is helping with that. The other is that his tongue strength and movement is soooooooo much better. I can't even begin to tell you how much better it is! We have been working a ton on this is therapy and I also have let him chew gum. Between those 2 thing, his movement has really increased. This seems to be helping how he is articulating.
We are also working on his IEP. That is coming up in less than a month, so we are getting all of our ducks in a row for that. I'm not anticipating many challenges with this, but you never know. All districts are cash strapped now and Kevin is the first deaf child in his district. So, he is paving the way for others... assuming there will be others. We are hoping for a 2 day a week in his oral-deaf school and 2 days in mainstream. I also would like to have him start using an FM system when he turns 3. I'll keep you updated on how this process goes. So far, it has just been a lot of paperwork and testing/observation. I'm not one to enjoy having to 'go through the process'.
2 cute stories that happened tonight that I have to share are this:
1. I was in the kitchen cooking with the fan on the stove and Kevin and his brother were in the family room about 20 ft away. My cell phone was about 10 ft. from me, so 30 ft. from Kevin. They were playing trains and making moving sounds and the fan was loud and my phone isn't that loud, but it started ringing. I didn't hear it that well. Kevin says, 'Mommy, your phone is ringing'. Why thanks, Kevin... my deaf child alerted me to my ringing phone! How cool is that!!!
2. Before we put the kids to bed, I made a fort with the couch cushions and we got underneath and turned on flashlights to tell 'spooky' stories. I went first and then my other son told a long and detailed story. I assumed that was it, but Kevin wanted to tell and story and I swear he talked for about 4-5 minutes non-stop with this detailed story. He was making up names for characters (monsters) like 'bullet-train' and 'curious george'. He told what they did and where they were going. I was so impressed that he could tell a made-up story all on his own! He never ceases to amaze me!
On another note, something did come up today. I have started taking them to the childcare at the gym. For the 2nd week in a row, Kevin has been bonked in the head by a 'friend' with a toy. Now, the child today was 2.5, so I am sure it was just a 2.5 year old thing, but on the way home I posed the question, 'Kevin, why are you getting hit in the head?' My other son said, 'maybe they are making fun of his implants'. Gulp... what did you say???? He told me that he doesn't think they are funny and no one has said anything to him, but maybe that is why they are doing that. My other son is almost 5. We have never had the conversation about Kevin's implants being 'different' or 'weird' or 'funny'. Just how great they are. Somehow, he has learned that people might poke fun at him for it. We talked about how he needed to be there for Kevin is someone did poke fun at him for them. While I am sure today's incident was simply a 2 year old asserting his power, it did make me aware that the time will come when some uneducated child will say something or do something to hurt Kevin's feelings about his implants. Hopefully Kevin will be at an age to have the confidence to soar through this, but I am dreading that day. I also never realized it might come at such a young age...
All in all, we couldn't be happier with Kevin's progress. He gets mapped next week! It will be interesting to see how much his map has changed in the past 6 months... this is the longest we have had between mappings!
Sunday, January 25, 2009
cute stories
I have some cute stories to share today.
I was reading the 'Voices' magazine the other day and left it on my bed. Yesterday, Kevin came running down the hallway all excited and pointed to the picture on the front and said, 'Look, Mom! She has a cochlear implant just like me!'. He was so excited to see that in a magazine and he wanted to see everyone with an implant throughout the magazine. It really made me realize that it is so important for us to have pictures of other people with an implant throughout the house. Whether it be books, magazines, or other CI friends, Kevin needs to see that there are other people having fun who wear an implant. I guess I never realized that he would take notice of something like that so young.
Also, on the drive home tonight from my parents, it was dark and we were just having a typical conversation. We must have been talking about how dark it was and how late it was and Kevin told me that, 'I wear cochlear implants and I have lights on my ears. Maybe I can help you see the road, Mommy'. He wanted to use the red blinking lights on his processors to help me see the road! He and his brother proceeded to have a conversation about why this would work and why not. My 4.5 year old, of course, was right with his argument, but I have to say that Kevin, at 2.5, gave pretty good arguments for his case. Most importantly, though, was the completely normal conversation they had as two brothers riding home in the car. This is something that at one point in my life, would never happen. It is hard to believe that in such a short time, things are basically where they would be if Kevin was born hearing...
I just had to share these stories because they put a smile on my face!
I was reading the 'Voices' magazine the other day and left it on my bed. Yesterday, Kevin came running down the hallway all excited and pointed to the picture on the front and said, 'Look, Mom! She has a cochlear implant just like me!'. He was so excited to see that in a magazine and he wanted to see everyone with an implant throughout the magazine. It really made me realize that it is so important for us to have pictures of other people with an implant throughout the house. Whether it be books, magazines, or other CI friends, Kevin needs to see that there are other people having fun who wear an implant. I guess I never realized that he would take notice of something like that so young.
Also, on the drive home tonight from my parents, it was dark and we were just having a typical conversation. We must have been talking about how dark it was and how late it was and Kevin told me that, 'I wear cochlear implants and I have lights on my ears. Maybe I can help you see the road, Mommy'. He wanted to use the red blinking lights on his processors to help me see the road! He and his brother proceeded to have a conversation about why this would work and why not. My 4.5 year old, of course, was right with his argument, but I have to say that Kevin, at 2.5, gave pretty good arguments for his case. Most importantly, though, was the completely normal conversation they had as two brothers riding home in the car. This is something that at one point in my life, would never happen. It is hard to believe that in such a short time, things are basically where they would be if Kevin was born hearing...
I just had to share these stories because they put a smile on my face!
Thursday, January 22, 2009
It has been a while since I posted, so I thought I would give a status update on Kevin's progress.
The other night I was awaken by Kevin stirring and talking. I went to his room thinking he needed me, only to find him sound asleep. I stayed in his room to make sure he wasn't going to wake up and sure enough, he started talking again! I realized that my deaf son talks in his sleep! It isn't all gibberish, it is actually English that he is saying. I found that to be completely amazing! To me, that signifies that while he is deaf, he is functioning as a hearing child and he has assimilated to this new world we created for him beautifully. I told you he is NEVER quiet... now it is really true! He even talks in his sleep!!!
His progress is coming along really well. He has always had trouble with 's' and 'f', but he says those on the end of words almost all the time. That means that he says plurals really well. His middle 's' and 'f' is coming along nicely too. The initial ones are still really hard for him, but if I stop him and correct him, he can do it. Actually, I have started acting like I don't know what he is talking about and he self corrects himself. For instance, he'll say 'do you ee that'? I'll respond with 'hmmm, what is ee? I don't know how to ee.' He'll then smile and say, 'do you s-ee that'? So, it is coming. His blend words are easier for him, like star, stop, etc.
The exciting news is his tongue movement! He can now move his tongue all the way to the left, right, and down. He still can't raise it up, but I am assuming that will come next. We have been working a lot on oral motor therapy hoping that will correct his articulation and it seems to be working.
Artic aside, his language is amazing! He seems to have full grasp of the English language (for a 2.5 year old) and says very complex sentences. I still think that he focuses so much on what to say because he has soooo much to say and so he gets lazy with some sounds. He is making huge progress all the time, though, so I'm sure it will all fall into place soon. He took another artic test yesterday, so I am anxious to see the results. I know he made a lot of progress since his last one 6 months ago...
The other night I was awaken by Kevin stirring and talking. I went to his room thinking he needed me, only to find him sound asleep. I stayed in his room to make sure he wasn't going to wake up and sure enough, he started talking again! I realized that my deaf son talks in his sleep! It isn't all gibberish, it is actually English that he is saying. I found that to be completely amazing! To me, that signifies that while he is deaf, he is functioning as a hearing child and he has assimilated to this new world we created for him beautifully. I told you he is NEVER quiet... now it is really true! He even talks in his sleep!!!
His progress is coming along really well. He has always had trouble with 's' and 'f', but he says those on the end of words almost all the time. That means that he says plurals really well. His middle 's' and 'f' is coming along nicely too. The initial ones are still really hard for him, but if I stop him and correct him, he can do it. Actually, I have started acting like I don't know what he is talking about and he self corrects himself. For instance, he'll say 'do you ee that'? I'll respond with 'hmmm, what is ee? I don't know how to ee.' He'll then smile and say, 'do you s-ee that'? So, it is coming. His blend words are easier for him, like star, stop, etc.
The exciting news is his tongue movement! He can now move his tongue all the way to the left, right, and down. He still can't raise it up, but I am assuming that will come next. We have been working a lot on oral motor therapy hoping that will correct his articulation and it seems to be working.
Artic aside, his language is amazing! He seems to have full grasp of the English language (for a 2.5 year old) and says very complex sentences. I still think that he focuses so much on what to say because he has soooo much to say and so he gets lazy with some sounds. He is making huge progress all the time, though, so I'm sure it will all fall into place soon. He took another artic test yesterday, so I am anxious to see the results. I know he made a lot of progress since his last one 6 months ago...
Monday, December 22, 2008
K sound is here!!!
Yea, just in time for a great Christmas present for us, Kevin can say 'k'! He actually can say his name if he really concentrates and thinks about, otherwise it still sounds like 'Devin'. The ending 'k' sound is coming pretty easily now. He says things like 'lock', 'book', etc with complete ease. It is strange how all of a sudden, just one day he can now say 'k'. Has he been holding out on me just so I would get a nice Christmas present? :) I have noticed that his tongue is moving a lot more now. He has some oral-motor issues and we have been working on his tongue movement a lot in therapy, and I guess it is starting to pay off.
What fun that my boy can now officially say his name!!! Now for our last name.... well that will be a while! Talk about a HARD name for a deaf child!!!
What fun that my boy can now officially say his name!!! Now for our last name.... well that will be a while! Talk about a HARD name for a deaf child!!!
Monday, December 15, 2008
new sounds and Happy Holidays!
Wow, what a difference a year or two makes in someone's life! 2 years ago, we had recently found out about Kevin's deafness and were going through the CI evaluation process. I remember Dec. 23 clearly... that is when Dr. Roberson walked in the room and said Kevin had 'a date with hardware'. He meant that all checked out well with Kevin's anatomy and that his surgery would be scheduled for a few weeks later! That Christmas was filled with sorrow, anticipation, and worry about Kevin and the whole unknown.
Last year, Kevin was well on his road with his CI and was a little over 18 months old and talking like an 18 month old. We did have that bump in the road when Kevin fell in October and knocked the internal magnet out and he had to have another surgery to fix that. That was a month of unexpected drama, but a blip in the road in the long run. He was doing great, but 18 month olds still don't really 'talk' like a person yet. I felt no more sorrow, but still had anticipation about him really talking, and, of course, worry about Kevin and the whole unknown.
Ahhh, this year! This year has been pure bliss with respect to Kevin's CIs. He is now talking like a regular natural hearing 2.5 year old and won't ever be quiet! He is processing information and returning thoughtful answers to questions, not just regurgitating words. In other words, he is REALLY talking!!! It has been so much fun watching him learn new sounds and new vocabulary. So, now I don't have any sorrow, no anticipation about him talking, but of course, I still have worry because I am a Mother and I think I always will. Part of the job description of being a Mom is being able to worry for your children because they shouldn't be burdened with that.
On to the new sound... Kevin can finally say 'G'. He says it very good at the end of words (pig, dog, hug) but just today started a word with a G sound. He said 'goat'. Up until now it was 'doat', but now he has 'goat'! Yea!!!! Now, the only sound that he hasn't really mastered is 'k'. Ironically, his name starts with that, but it will make it that much sweeter when he finally gets it! He can say it in isolation, just not in words yet.
I know that many more fun times await us in the next year!
Happy Holidays!!!
Last year, Kevin was well on his road with his CI and was a little over 18 months old and talking like an 18 month old. We did have that bump in the road when Kevin fell in October and knocked the internal magnet out and he had to have another surgery to fix that. That was a month of unexpected drama, but a blip in the road in the long run. He was doing great, but 18 month olds still don't really 'talk' like a person yet. I felt no more sorrow, but still had anticipation about him really talking, and, of course, worry about Kevin and the whole unknown.
Ahhh, this year! This year has been pure bliss with respect to Kevin's CIs. He is now talking like a regular natural hearing 2.5 year old and won't ever be quiet! He is processing information and returning thoughtful answers to questions, not just regurgitating words. In other words, he is REALLY talking!!! It has been so much fun watching him learn new sounds and new vocabulary. So, now I don't have any sorrow, no anticipation about him talking, but of course, I still have worry because I am a Mother and I think I always will. Part of the job description of being a Mom is being able to worry for your children because they shouldn't be burdened with that.
On to the new sound... Kevin can finally say 'G'. He says it very good at the end of words (pig, dog, hug) but just today started a word with a G sound. He said 'goat'. Up until now it was 'doat', but now he has 'goat'! Yea!!!! Now, the only sound that he hasn't really mastered is 'k'. Ironically, his name starts with that, but it will make it that much sweeter when he finally gets it! He can say it in isolation, just not in words yet.
I know that many more fun times await us in the next year!
Happy Holidays!!!
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